Let her be that which she is here to be.
Instead of orchestrating her life, let her body orchestrate her life.
Instead of telling her how to be a mum, let her be a mum.
Instead of telling her how to take a photo, let her take a phone.
Instead of telling her who she can love, let her love.
Instead of telling her what she must look like, let her express herself.
Instead of telling her how to clean, let her clean how she cleans.
Instead of telling her if she is wrong, let her make mistakes.
Instead of orchestrating her life, let her body orchestrate her life.
Beauty. Whether or not your minds leading you, a friend or family member is leading you, I want to remind you that your temple (body), intuition and soul already knows. It is already leading you to magical places far beyond your perception. It already knows how to create, connect, do and all the things. It’s innate!
Or, if you are trying to lead another, I want to encourage you to take a step back, love her perception of life, accept her ways and adore her creations. This is the same for how you get to treat you.
Divine one, let me give you some examples.
You’re a photographer and often log into IG for the latest content to grow your skills. However, nothing ever seems to be original for you and sometimes you just wish that what you made was yours. Now, instead of finding more inspiration, I want to encourage you to be the inspiration and allow your soul to try different things that feel aligned (even if it lookssilly or unacceptable).
Or, It’s 6 am and you have work from 9 am til 5 pm. So in your mind, you have created the belief that you must eat because else you will get moody, move because else you will be perceived as lazy, clean because else people call you messy and connect because else you think people think you are a loner. You also think this all must be done now because when you get home you will be exhausted.
But, what do you truly want? Would you prefer a slow morning stroll connecting with nature, a gooey brekky out with your lover, or a cosy drink and book to read?
Or, your goal is to clean a house, now normally you would smash this out in 2 hours but today isn’t the day because you’re leaning into your true needs. First, you take yourself out to Brekky, bump into a bestie and lie in the sun for hours (sounds like me ;-)), then you head home. Now your cups flowing. So now you're ready to pump the beats and suddenly your house is clean! Did you do it? Did your man do it or did it just happen because you’re so joyous? Or maybe it was all three. (Because you honour yourself, you also honour your environment and organically you flow with your loving self and others/your surroundings.
The truth is that when we slow down, tune in and listen to our real beat, this is when we organically do the exact thing (yes one thing) in the exact way we need to fill our joy bucket . This is because we lean into our child-like persona that listens to needs and allows self to do life in a unique way that feels good.
Once a task or certain creative exploration or way of doing has been done, we organically move to the next. It’s this simple. And because we are humans I will tell you one big fat secret 🤫 we organically will MOVE, NOURISH, CONNECT, CREATE & REST multiple times a day because that’s what our souls yearn for most. Only, now we have removed the grip to make it look a certain way. And instead, we do it the way that makes us most happy and joyous!
Meanwhile, all those fears of being LAZY, producing STUPID work or not ACHIEVING can be put aside because we actually do way more as our souls NEVER burns out, we also ALIGN to our people/clients because we do our WORK(not others) and achieving passes you by as you BE.
